Q: What would you say to the spouse of someone about to enter vicar training?
Matt: Don't suffer alone. Surround yourself with people going through the same thing and make time to share with them. They will understand. Be very honest with yourself, your spouse/friends/family about how you REALLY feel. Remember it’s your calling too. Don't become isolated. Communication. Communication. Communication. Find time to pray/laugh/party/make love. And only make quiche if you want to. You are you. Be that person.